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So this weekend I jumped out of an airplane...

This past weekend I jumped out of an airplane.  Why, you ask?

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When I was 7 my dad picked up flying again.  I remember my very first flight he took me up in in a small plane.  We flew out of Addison airport touring Dallas from the air, shooting through clouds and buzzing over our house.  I remember wondering "What would it be like to fly... without the plane?"!  Now I know...

For my birthday in August Jill gave me a gift certificate to Sky Dive San Marcos.  We went together on a cool and clear Saturday morning.  My thoughts were more excitement than fear.  This was to be a tandem dive, meaning you are strapped an instructor. I felt safe and confident I would land in one piece.  The plane flew to 11,000 feet and my instructor and I stepped to the edge of the plane.  He had told me to push my hips forward and lean back as we stepped off the back of the plane... this meant we launched out into a back flip!

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I went 0 to 60 MPH in 3 seconds!  It was a wild first step but pretty quickly I could see the ground as we did a free fall for about 6,000 feet.  We reached around 120 MPH but I have to say... it was peaceful and amazing!  I've never felt anything like it and any it went by way too fast.
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At about 5,000 feet above Texas the chute opened and the ride changed completely.  All of the sudden the rush was gone... the 120 MPH race turned into a leisurely stroll.  It was amazing how maneuverable the parachute was as we spent the next several minutes, spinning, talking and looking around.  I could see the Austin skyline about 30 miles away. The ride down was as easy and relaxing as a walk in the park.  I was not ready to land!

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With Jill floating in over my left shoulder we gently sailed back to earth.  The landing was easy and more than anything I felt bummed that it was over!  The jump was amazing and I would do it again in a heartbeat.  As I considered the "why" of my motivation to jump put of an airplane I thought about several factors.  Like many people, I have a bucket list and today it has one less item on it.  I also am one to "face my fears" and anyone that would tell you they were not afraid to step off an airplane at 11,000 feet is lying!

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So why did I jump out of an airplane?  More than anything I did this because it is not something that is easy to do.  It is an event to face, not to put off.  It is something to embrace, not shy away from.  It is an activity to be shared, one that will create the memory of a lifetime.  I was glad for the incredibly thoughtful gift and excited to have someone special to share it with.  

I recognize sky diving is not for everyone and that's ok.  But maybe it is for you... maybe it's time to face your own fears, do something challenging and create a memory.  It certainly was for me and I wouldn't have missed it for the world!

"The World is a Complicated Place, Hobbes"

I really miss Calvin and Hobbes.  For years I enjoyed reading them to my son and laughing together.  Today the cartoonist, Bill Watterson is retired and my son is reading Fantasy Football stats!
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Calvin represented the boy in all of us.  He was inquisitive, fearless (to a point) and adventurous.  I enjoyed his imagination and certainly saw some of me in Calvin, and Calvin in my son. Hobbes is the quintessential calming influence.  The imaginary tiger was both a friend and counselor.  Together they made a great team and got into (and out of) more trouble than I ever did! The comic below is one of my favorites.  Often times, Calvin and Hobbes dealt with 'big picture' issues in a simple way.  Live life for a few years and you realize the world is a complicated place.  There are definitely days when I would have loved to take Hobbes advice and just "take a nap in a tree and wait for dinner."
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I hope this holiday season your world can be uncomplicated.  Enjoy the little things and appreciate the blessings of life.  While the world may not be as simple as black and white, it is an awesome place when filled with the color of life. My favorite quote is by Ronald Reagan, "Enjoy life, it's ungrateful not to." Indeed. Tom Cuthbert

A Lesson in Sportsmanship

Without question, one of the greatest coaches in my lifetime has been John Wooden.  
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With ten championships over a twelve year period, no one would question Coach Wooden is among the best.  Ask any player who played for the "Wizard of Westwood" and you will learn they all learned more about life than about basketball.  It was Wooden who said, "Sports do not build character. They reveal it." Character has been revealed through sport in a game played in Dallas where Covenant defeated Dallas Academy 100-0 on Jan. 13.  Leading 59-0 at the half, the team continued to shoot three-point shots and press on defense.  Credit goes to Dallas Academy for never giving up.  I was struck by their attitude and desire to improve shown in this video from the Dallas Morning News. While not a point was scored by the team it's clear to me that there was a point made.  After the fact, the Covenant team players and coaches apologized and offered to forfeit the win.  Lesson learned.  Wooden is right, sports reveal character... in both winning and losing.  The key is learning to apply those lessons to life. Wooden went on to greatness not because of his knowledge of basketball, but because of his perspective on life.  Let me leave you with John Wooden's Seven Point Creed, given to him by his father Joshua upon his graduation:
  • Be true to yourself.
  • Make each day your masterpiece.
  • Help others.
  • Drink deeply from good books.
  • Make friendship a fine art.
  • Build a shelter against a rainy day.
  • Pray for guidance and give thanks for your blessings every day.
All good words to live by.  Thanks coach Wooden for 98 years of leadership.  And congrats to the team at Dallas Academy for reminding us that in life, there are more points to be made off the court than on it. Tom